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HealthyGamerGG·November 8, 2019

Why You Should Follow Your Dharma: Finding Purpose, Overcoming Creative Blocks, and Embracing Production

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Summary

This episode delves into the concept of Dharma, or one's purpose in life, and offers practical strategies for discovering and pursuing it, particularly for individuals who struggle with creative output. The core exercise introduced is to write a full page about "what's wrong with the world," a task designed to engage the creative mind. The host highlights a common imbalance, especially among gamers, where the analytical mind is overdeveloped while the creative mind remains weak, leading to an inability to produce despite having many thoughts. This imbalance is framed using the yogic concepts of Shiva (consciousness/intention) and Shakti (energy/manifestation), emphasizing that both are necessary for accomplishment, and many struggle with weak Shakti.

A key distinction is made between the "artist" (creative mind) and the "editor" (analytical mind), with the advice to learn how to "shut off your editor" during the initial creative phase. The podcast argues that video games, by focusing on analysis and external responses, often fail to train the creative muscle, leaving individuals adept at commenting but poor at doing. The practical recommendation is to simply practice the skill of production, starting with the writing exercise, regardless of the quality of the output. The host challenges listeners to collectively write a "crappy book" to overcome the fear of failure and the psychological barrier of feeling undeserving of success.

The discussion also addresses the common struggle of shattered dreams, using the example of an aspiring eSports professional who realized they weren't good enough. The crucial insight here is the necessity of grieving for lost potential, comparing it to the process of grieving a miscarriage. Acknowledging the loss and allowing oneself to feel sadness is presented as the appropriate way to move on, rather than suppressing the desire. This grief process is framed within a "roguelike" analogy, where one must adapt to the available "spells" and "stats" rather than clinging to an initial, unavailable path.

Finally, the episode connects finding Dharma to financial success, positing that what matters to an individual likely matters to others, and people are generally willing to pay for value. By identifying a problem (what's wrong with the world or what's missing in a specific field like eSports) and working to correct it, one can generate value and potentially achieve financial success. The broader implication is that engaging in creative production, even if it results in "failure," is a powerful tool for self-worth, personal growth, and ultimately, finding and pursuing one's true purpose, irrespective of immediate external validation or monetary gain.

Key Quotes

"write a page about what you think is wrong with the world"
"we have our creative mind and we have our analytical mind"
"one of the biggest things that writers need to learn how to do is shut off their editor"
"if I had to diagnose your problem is a gamer the problem is that you have lots of thoughts and they never produce anything"
"you need energy and intention... Shiva is the principle of like consciousness or intention and Shakti is Shiva's consort... Shakti means energy"
"what matters to you is probably going to matter to someone else out there and generally speaking money is correlated with value"
"successful authors write the book that they want to read"
"you need to grieve for the loss... be honest with yourself and say hey I really wanted this but I've lost it"
"you're gonna produce the biggest turd of authorship in the universe and you're gonna feel good about it"
"most of the people now in eSports don't play the game"

Concepts

Themes

  • Finding and pursuing purpose
  • Cultivating creativity and production
  • Overcoming the fear of failure
  • Processing loss and shattered aspirations
  • The psychological impact of video games
  • Connecting personal passion to societal value
  • Self-worth through action

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Self-Development Insights

Practical Exercises

  • Write one page about what's wrong with the world
  • Write one page about what's missing in a specific field (e.g., eSports)

Psychological Mechanisms

  • Imbalance between analytical and creative minds leading to production blocks
  • Grief as a necessary process for moving on from lost potential
  • The role of production in building self-worth and overcoming self-doubt
  • Subconscious desires influencing current struggles and resistance to action

Analogies Used

  • One-armed workout (imbalanced mental muscles)
  • Roguelike game (adapting to available paths/spells in life)
  • Miscarriage (grieving lost potential or a life path that won't be)

Target Audience Insights

  • Gamers often have overdeveloped analytical minds and underdeveloped creative minds
  • Individuals struggle with production due to fear of failure and feeling undeserving of success

Core Recommendations

  • Practice the skill of producing, regardless of initial quality
  • Separate the 'artist' from the 'editor' during the creative process
  • Grieve for shattered dreams to effectively move forward
  • Identify problems or gaps to create value and find purpose

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