trap of understanding
2 episodes mention this concept
psychacksNov 15, 2024The Trap of Understanding: Why Problem Origins Are Irrelevant in Relationships and Dating
PsychologyTrap of understandingProblem origin vs. problem existenceIntellectual curiosityIntrinsic motivation for change- psychacksApr 19, 2024
The Trap of Understanding: Why Demanding Empathy Can Be a Costly Concession in Relationships
PsychologyTrap of understandingFoundational cultural assumptionCouple's therapy assumptionsShame-based family of origin
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- low optionality
- personal responsibility
- intellectual curiosity
- self-diagnosed assessment
- responsibility vs. fault
- accommodation
- lovability
- discount/allowance
- emotional unavailability
- self-change
- sexual marketplace
- problem origin vs. problem existence
- deal breaker
- behavioral repertoire
- foundational cultural assumption
- subjective experience
- relinquishment of legitimate desires
- courtship process
- shame-based family of origin
- intrinsic motivation for change